Friday, October 21, 2022

The Conversation

The conversations we have with the world are the conversations we have with our self.  If you want to improve your connections with others, the first step will be to improve the connection with yourself.


Whatever relationship you have within your own heart will shine to the world.


Be and breathe love.

Wednesday, October 12, 2022

Lady Friends and Lady Loves

Lady friends, like lady loves, are entirely open and honest with us.  We are mutually supportive and respectful of boundaries and expectations.  Instead of shutting down or going berserk, the ladies are encouraged to chill-out by going into the hot tub or sauna, to work-out or do yoga, to paint, write, dance or connect with bridges of loving support.  Eventually, after resisting the positive, healthy, expansive suggestions for harboring peace within and around her, she says after practicing the suggestions, “Why did I resist for so long?”  


We listen to our heart and let our heart guide our boundaries and expectations.


Lady loves exist in the world of romance.  In romance we enter a deeply intertwined connection which requires the highest degree of care.  The souls are breathing together in a way reserved for loving.  The seriousness of this type of connection cannot be understated.  Lives are created, hearts ripped apart, validation of who we are.  


Lady loves make the world meaningful.  Without lady loves no man will exist or feel the love needed to continue existing.

Validation

We need validation in some way.  


Without validation we lose a sense of ourself, validation for how we look, for our worth and adequacy, for our ability and creativity, for our perception of experiences.


Your validation encourages the existence you validate.  Whatever is validated is encouraged to continue.


Thus, we have the power to influence behaviour through validation or invalidation.  


The author is thankful for all the validation from you and the universe in living, breathing and sharing his positive, healthy, expansive existence!