Enough Already

    Enough with the hurt already.  Just stop it.  But how can we just stop the hurt if the hurt is a habit?  No good will come from the foot of a rabbit.

    I already knew the hurt was there, why did I continue to hold onto and continue to practice the memory.  I continued because I did; it was my habit.  I did not stop when a deeply sincere loving support was removed because of my hurtfulness.  I continued anyway, in a more refined manner, until my hurtfulness was given back to me from a different deeply sincere loving support.

    Heartbroken again, but this time we have forgiveness.  Forgiveness for our-self, for our values and experiences that led to hurtful behavior.

    When I think of the word forgive, I think of the word forgo.  To forgo something is to go without it.  So to forgive something is to give without it.  We give without our values that led to hurtful behavior.  Give without the hurt.

    Give with love; good, deeply sincere love; love that will not incidentally create hurt from a tainted, twisted or clouded interpretation of love.   

    Give without hurtful love.  Forgive hurtful love.

    We have faith that as we give without our negative, unhealthy, contractive values, we will give with more positive, healthy, expansive values!

    Be at peace with the hurt.  Be patient with the growth. Enjoy 4/20.