A woman came to the dude’s realm, up all night from dishonesty within her relations.
She sat nearby the dude, excused herself and asked if he knew about the going ons with lap dances at strip clubs.
The dude disclosed, depending on the strip club, the stripper and the the client, there are varying degrees of access relative to a deal struck.
She wanted to know why her boyfriend didn’t just tell her he was going to a strip club. She understood he was joining a friend of his who was celebrating a divorce.
The dude shared, her boyfriend was afraid. Afraid for how she might respond to his truth of going to see ugly women dance.
The woosy cat. The dude knew her boyfriend was a being woos, the dude too had been a woosy cat; afraid to tell his lady of dumb dickery for how she might respond.
Positive, healthy, expansive relationships are built with openness and honesty. On the contrary, negative, unhealthy, contractive relationships manifest from lying and scheming.
She said if he told her first, she would not have been upset. She just wished he had told her.
Positive, healthy, expansive relationships exist with boundaries and expectations.
How can boundaries expand a relationship? Expansion occurs with expectations. Boundaries serve to protect the individuals and the relationship itself from unchecked expansion. Unchecked expansion may lead to a breakdown which may lead to a breakthrough or not.
She was tired of him being a woos, he has been a woos for so long.
Our dude shared she had a part too. To the point, she allowed her boyfriend to lie at first and tell the truth later, again and again and now - her spirit is ready to shine.
She went about her day, thankful to discover the dwelling of the dude.
She returned in the evening.
She disclosed, she wanted to sit in the master’s vibe and absorb his chillin’ dude energy before going to confront her woosy man.
Seeing an opportunity for the Man of Manasota to manifest, our dude said, “Of course, that will be $20.”
She laughed off his response. The dude did not press for the money because he had yet to disclose the expectation.
Our dude asked, “Why do you have to confront him? Can’t you approach him?”
“Brilliant!” she responded.
The dude continued, “You can approach him with your truth and how he responds is however he responds. From his response, you need not respond further. Simply leave the conversation there. Remember to share your boundaries and expectations, openly and honestly, with self-control, gentleness, faithfulness, generosity, kindness, patience, peace, joy and love!”
“Thank you,” she said.
She came again the next morning, her spirit much brighter than the prior day. The grand master dude was already engaged in conversation with a pastor. She joined them. Though she couldn’t say the specifics due to the third party, the dude profiled she improved.